Happy Birthday Dad
Jun. 7th, 2006 01:02 pmOn Sunday afternoon I zoomed south. This time really was a zoom; I covered over 400 miles in only six hours. It was a very hot, but very clear day. For the first time in all my visits to my dad I could see all the way to Palomar Mountain. The dome of the 5 meter telescope shone white in the eastern saddle of the mountain top. It has been over a quarter century since I was in the domes on that mountain.
I entered my Dad's room before visiting hours closed. He recognized me and I took him on another wheelchair tour of the facility. Alas, there is no view of the mountain top without going out to the parking lot, but my Dad has lived there long enough to know what I would have shown him. I wished my dad a happy day before his birthday and departed for the night.
On the way back to Dad's place I grabbed all the requisite supplies for a birthday cake (and food to sustain me as well). Upon arrival I started baking, and I looked through the household. Every indication is that my dad will never return to his place. There were little treasure troves of ancestral history, including a genealogy of my dad's family dating back to the Revolutionary War. That puts my roots pretty deep on this continent on both sides of my family. I whipped up the buttercream frosting, slathered the cake, and slept.
Monday I brought the cake and candles into my dad's room as he dozed. I got permission to make fire in a room which did not have oxygen flowing. amd the staff added balloons to the party ambiance. After my dad ate lunch I lit the candles, brought over the cake, sang, and recorded digital imagery for transmission to the rest of the family. My dad blew out both of the candles and ate cake with relish.

I was all of the party who was physically present, but I called other family members and handed the phone to my dad. He said ``hello'' to everyone. As they spoke he replied in a conversational tone. Everyone was amazed at the conversation they had with Dad.
Artemis, Athena, you both deserve thanks, for without you I would not have practice baking up a cake on a totally impromptu basis. I can barely begin to say how good of an effect that little party had on my dad.
Athena, thanks for the pot/kettle discussion later that day, and thanks for Rutabegorz, an old family favorite.
Dad, happy birthday in one more medium.
I entered my Dad's room before visiting hours closed. He recognized me and I took him on another wheelchair tour of the facility. Alas, there is no view of the mountain top without going out to the parking lot, but my Dad has lived there long enough to know what I would have shown him. I wished my dad a happy day before his birthday and departed for the night.
On the way back to Dad's place I grabbed all the requisite supplies for a birthday cake (and food to sustain me as well). Upon arrival I started baking, and I looked through the household. Every indication is that my dad will never return to his place. There were little treasure troves of ancestral history, including a genealogy of my dad's family dating back to the Revolutionary War. That puts my roots pretty deep on this continent on both sides of my family. I whipped up the buttercream frosting, slathered the cake, and slept.
Monday I brought the cake and candles into my dad's room as he dozed. I got permission to make fire in a room which did not have oxygen flowing. amd the staff added balloons to the party ambiance. After my dad ate lunch I lit the candles, brought over the cake, sang, and recorded digital imagery for transmission to the rest of the family. My dad blew out both of the candles and ate cake with relish.


I was all of the party who was physically present, but I called other family members and handed the phone to my dad. He said ``hello'' to everyone. As they spoke he replied in a conversational tone. Everyone was amazed at the conversation they had with Dad.
Artemis, Athena, you both deserve thanks, for without you I would not have practice baking up a cake on a totally impromptu basis. I can barely begin to say how good of an effect that little party had on my dad.
Athena, thanks for the pot/kettle discussion later that day, and thanks for Rutabegorz, an old family favorite.
Dad, happy birthday in one more medium.